I dated out of desperation 😭

It late 2024 I met this dude where my mum used to work I actually knew his best friend so that made us be close and shit😭 so on this particular day he asked me out and I said yes and everything was cool so on the second week of dating he attended a graduation party along thika when coming home he got arrested and shit then he was like oooh I had to pay the police 1500 or something I just told him sorry and what he removed was less than what my sister had to remove😭🤣sema kupata matusi he was like ooh you didn't have to say that ik you guys are rich ooh your being inconsiderate and being a bitch😭 The following day comes nigga pretended every thing was okay and as a girl desperately wanted to be loved I stayed and he became verbally abusive 2 more times one is because i said he wasn't my husband🤣🤣Two is because i didn't give him money for idk what and he was like ooh you dont love me anymore na kaa hadi if i had my mum's phone i would have done the same and sent it to you!!!!and blamed everything on the alcohol 😭😭who even blames alcohol for their action😭😭 whiiii fast forward before I broke up with him I had given him my Spotify account and shit NO OFFENCE BUT HE WAS LISTENING TO MUGITHI ON MY SPOTIFY AND COUNTRY SONGS so when I told him your spoiling my algorithm and shit and he needs to get out of it he denied and I just told him what to do and the nigga said to me "ni nini mbaya na wewe eeh unadhani sielewi kitu unasema we msichana mnono"😭🤣🤣I just told him his dumb and noone says that he should go back to grade 3 so he can man up and come with a better insult ...months passed by and I met his best friend randomly and ge started begging me to unblock him and shit and he made sure I did after a few months he texted me saying he was sorry ooh its the alcohol and shit and he told me he loved me I should go back to him 😕this Gender will kill me one day I just said no and bloody blocked him again and that is how I knew people can be mbwa mwitu wamevaa tu ngozi ya kondoo!!!yoooo!!