Red flag meets RED flag

I found myself in a relationship without planning , you see those ones that start when you hanging it out with a specific person consistently partying then one day you make out and before you know it’s babe and love.

He was was so protective and insecure with my ex(the ex was like my best friend tho)that he made me block my ex everywhere. Anyway few months I notice the small red flags as simple as him telling me that a phone is a hand asset so nobody should get into it( we had exchanged passwords and I had never checked his phone before ) , so I bullied him into reading his messages that day na Maina let me tell you eeey, kila mtu was babe ….anyway one weekend he decided to disappear on me and coincidentally I happen to meet my ex at a club randomly, guys si I told you we used to be friends but that night we became more than that. He asked why I had blocked him and I had to explain to him better at his place. My bf suspected I was with someone, consequently I had to face him and tell him the truth , only for him to confess that he was also with his with his ex the previous night.

We settled the matter but it happened again so we just decided to break up and stay with our exs😂😂😭